I’ve been where you are. You’re tired of feeling stuck, living by the "rules" of your upbringing and society, while your true desires remain on hold.

Breaking free meant awakening what I call my Gentleman Warrior, through 15 years of studying my emotional reactions and mastering the art of vulnerability to be able to choose to act (instead of react). That’s how I gained Self-mastery and built the foundations for the life I’d always dreamed of.

I’m a passionate advocate for living the life that's meant for us. I've walked the path of rebellion and transformation from anxiety to self-discovery and freedom for about 15 years now.

If you’re here, then something brought you to this point. Rest assured you’re in the right place and, in time, you’ll understand it’s no accident you’re here.

But what about me, who am I? And how did I get to the point of living a heart-led life, being able to express myself with healthy boundaries and having a life, relationship and career that I absolutely love?

My journey hasn’t always been smooth. For years, I juggled a high-flying career as a management consultant with a wild social life, all while battling anxiety. It was a rollercoaster of client meetings, presentations, and epic party weekends followed by mid-week meltdowns. I learned the hard way—running from fear and anxiety only fuels it.

Fast forward to now, and I've flipped the script. Now, I know the vulnerability feeling associated with fear is a guide, signalling when something's out of sync in life and, therefore, a direction to follow. There's a deep, deep wisdom in it. Through my journey, I've crafted a method and toolbox for unlocking that wisdom and having healthy boundaries to confidently navigate and embrace change - the only part of life that’s constant.

The thing that makes me tick most is realising potential, mine and other people’s. And I know the wisdom in vulnerability is the key to that happening. It really is the catalyst to our freedom.

I’m fascinated by the human experience and making it feel as free as possible and how understanding the physics of the universe and the energy of our emotions is what makes that freedom possible. Yes, I’m a philosophy, psychology and physics geek. I read it mostly in the bath. I love a chat about all that stuff and questions (and let’s be honest situations) that push the edge of my comfort zone and make me feel vulnerable because I know that’s where the growth is and, ultimately, how we find alignment to the life that’s meant for us.

I live in the UK, London mainly, and I'm passionate about dancing, martial arts, meditation, and tattoos and the cinema is where I switch off. I'm driven by vulnerability and the healing it brings towards living a soul-led life. It’s central to my existence. That’s why people started calling me The Vulnerability Guy (cos I kept bangin’ on about it), why I coach and why I founded Plight Club clothing. As Alan Watts did, I know the insecurity found in vulnerability is a signal to help with our evolution.

If you’re ready to step onto the journey of self-transformation we’ll get to know each other in depth on the journey ahead. Clients have said it’s like having a new best mate as a go-to for guidance and support.

If you need further convincing that you’re ready to take the step (which I know you are otherwise you wouldn’t be reading this) check out some of my testimonials of how I've helped others. It would be an absolute honour to help you too.

If you’re up for transforming your life, book a free discovery call and we’ll go from there.

Be well and I’ll speak to you soon.